Do You Also Feel Like A Pumpkin?

I don't know if you liked my previous blog or not. Hold on! Did you even read it? You must! It is my first blog after all! I won't force you, but it will help you to understand this blog better.

Basically, what I am trying to push here is the importance of patience. Like I talked about the "dog method" in my last blog, I am going to continue it in this blog as well... So, the crux is that you have to be consistent with what you do and stop overthinking. Just decide once and go for it.

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I feel like a Pumpkin. Yes, I do. For God's sake I am 86 kgs! Why shouldn't I feel like a Pumpkin!?! I don't know what vegetable matches you best, may be gourds... peas... broccoli... okay don't kill me.

None of us are satisfied about how we look. In my gym (Yes, I workout and have lost 4 kgs in 3 weeks, mind it), I see girls trying to get a better booty (even though they look like Victoria's Secret models). And then I look at myself... and then I notice the weights they are using... most of them can't pull them up properly. And I am not lying.

You know what... when I entered this gym to enroll myself, they suggested me to go for WLP (Weight Loss Programme). But, I chose a trainer who could make me healthier and stronger. Yes, he is the best one in my gym and trains me 6 days a week (even though he is paid for 3 days a week). I will share in my next blogs that why does he train me for extra 3 days. Let's come to the point here.

The point is... if you want to begin a journey toward health, fitness, better looks, etc, you must set a target for yourself. Some most common targets are:

1. Lean body
2. Bigger booty
3. Bigger boobs
4. Sexy legs

ALL BULLSHIT!

I am sorry if I sounded rude. But, trust me... you can't have a booty like Kim Kardashian without surgery. All lean people are not healthy and fit. Boobs are not the only thing in the world, people! And sexy legs won't make you the President anyway.

I know that you are intelligent and you got the point. Still I will repeat it for the confirmation... "focus on health and fitness". 

Now, don't start calculating the BMI, BMR, etc. Invent your own standards. My standards include:

• to be able to eat anything
• to be able to travel in any atmosphere
• to be able to stay ahead of all the co-trekkers
• to be able to do anything that I wish for

Yes, these are my standards. I don't believe in modern science standards much. I check my weight just for fun. Because, I know that when I will be able to match my standards, I will eventually become the prettiest.

It doesn't mean that I will look prettiest to everyone. People will still find flaws in me, as I told in my previous blog that some people like Mango and some like Apple. But the best part is... I will be satisfied in my own skin. So, let's start working on it together. Let's start loving our choices and chucking the stereotype standards. If you feel fit with 75 kgs, stick to it. You don't have to get lean sacrificing all that strength and muscle. Be the way you want yourself to be. Even if the entire world rejects you after that... I will always be there to love you. XO

Are You Also A Cucumber With Anxiety?

Stress has taken over almost the entire world now. We are actually turning into the cucumbers with anxiety. Sounds heavy? Of course! Why won't it? Who wants to talk about stress? I know! But, I am not kidding you! And you are reading it right! I am actually talking about STRESS!

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I know that you had been running away from it for far too long. But, you must go through it. Because, a tumor can only be removed with a surgery. And for a surgery, someone has to cut you open. So, let's do it.

...ummm

I know that it sounds painful, but we have to do it.

Okay... So, have you ever observed a dog? Indeed, he loves unconditionally, but he also bites unconditionally. He may bring you the morning newspaper, but he may also bite your slippers into pieces. But, do they get kicked out of the home? Of course not! Why?

Because, what matters is that he loves unconditionally. Yes, that philosophy is idiotic that one bad thing can ruin your reputation. We all make mistakes.

I, sometimes, get too rude with my colleagues. Times come when I actually shout at my parents. And you won't believe, I sometimes even lecture the beggars to find some work rather than begging. I even get angry on a salesman for trying to push a product on me. But, gradually, I found a way to maintain peace inside. And the secret is... the "dog method".

Just love unconditionally, but don't stop yourself from doing something that you actually want to do. Yes, it includes showing a middle finger to the haters. LOL! (I don't do that, trust me.)

I am not a monk. I don't have time to meditate all my life to control my emotions and feelings. And if I did it, I may lose all my desires and go into exile leaving my loved ones. It is my desire to live, which ignites the negative emotions, and I understand that. So should you.

Few days back, I cried a lot. Planned to leave my job and shift into an asylum. No, it's not sad. Don't feel sorry for me. You must laugh! Because I am laughing too! Yes, I am laughing. Why?

Actually, I just realized that I am a Mango and I cannot taste like an Apple. Some people like Mango, some people like Apple. All these years, I chose to be a Mango and all of a sudden I was just trying to be an Apple. Don't you think it is hilarious!?!

Trust me, my eyes are watering and stomach is hurting right now, just trying to stop myself rolling on the floor and managing to type for you.

Yes, "for you". I know that you have gone through a lot. I know that you are going through many things. I know that it hurts inside. And I know that you are suffering. But, I also know that you have already came out of a lot. And you will make it like a winner. And if you don't know how to make it... we will make it together.

This is my first blog and I will try to write regularly about my experiments with life. Before I finish... I would like to brief you about the struggles of my life, so that you may subscribe me if that interests you.

1. I am 86 kgs right now. Lost 4 kgs in last 3 weeks. Target is 59. My weight loss struggle will be shared in this blog.
2. Growing as a hardcore coorporate employee, I am learning to deal with people after having a life of isolation.
3. Almost all the immunity is broken inside after overdosing on antibiotics by mistake after a severe accident. It makes daily chores and "workout" difficult. Working on rejuvenating my health.
4. Struggling with the nutrition loss.
5. Developing new good habits and struggling to leave the bad ones.
6. Trying to be a better human.

I won't write more because even I don't know what all I am going to cover.

If you are also a warrior, share your experience. I am looking for the real life heroes to inspire the world. Your real experiences will be featured in my blogs. Let's do it together, Heroes!